When you fight something, you’re tied to it forever. As long as you’re fighting it, you’re giving it power, and resistance usually always brings pain.
What are you ‘fighting’ examine your inner struggle. What does your personality want from the situation? What can you learn from this? What you resist persists, and only what you look at, and own, can disappear.
Always strive to mend separation and achieve unity. Always choose love over fear. If you can embrace whatever you are struggling against, the struggle will disappear, you make it disappear by simply changing your mind about it.