Dare To Be Yourself

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. However, when we don’t know who we are or if we are afraid to be who we are, we mostly pretend to be who we think we are. This deduction is based on our self image which is made up of our experiences, desires and other people’s ideas and expectations of us.

Maintaining this false self is a betrayal of ourselves. In all deep spiritual journeys, there is the experience of betrayal. Betrayal always tells us to adjust our life to be more authentic.

There are large betrayals (e.g., your partner leaving you) and small betrayals (e.g., disappointments). They are all experiences of being wounded for the purpose of breaking down the defences of the personality. When we allow the wounding and accept the betrayals as divine gifts, we greatly benefit.

What we identify with is all important. What you must dare is to be yourself, be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind



6 thoughts on “Dare To Be Yourself

  1. jason

    kate, dude, while chatting with marie in wakey wakefield today, one was mentioning that a lot of your blogs are like magazine articles.
    Are they, pre published stuff, of yours, do you publish em later, like your salad thingy eh ?

  2. Coffee With Kate

    Good Morning Jason, the short answer to your question is both yes and no.
    Take care (Kate Coffee With Kate)

  3. LAIRD

    Most people who dare to be themselves and not materialists are labelled "eccentric" as with me when I refuse to own a mobile phone or satnav.!
    I am my own dishwasher…..as with cooking it helps release the days tensions.

  4. me

    what is jason like! he will have you think we were gossiping 🙂
    i like being myself, even if its a mix of many different faces.
    take care
    love mariex

  5. Waz

    well said Kate! :)but sometimes, the wise man is not the one who distance himself from the group but is also the one who can blend and be part of the group without being the group!every experience is truely a divine gift that helps us to grow in this world! i luv this one!!! it’s so true…we realise it especially after being thru some hardship!ve a good weekend Kate,Waz


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